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   <title>Rahima Baldwin Dancy</title>
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   <summary><![CDATA[Welcome to my blog, for parents who want to bring more Waldorf principles into&nbsp;your homes, either to enrich family life or for home schooling. Right now I'm excited to have finished the 3rd revised edition of You Are Child's First...]]></summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/Rahima!-thumb-220x220-13-thumb-220x220-14.jpg"></a><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/Rahima!-thumb-220x220-13.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 20px 20px 0px; FLOAT: left" class="mt-image-left" alt="Thumbnail image for Rahima!.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/Rahima!-thumb-220x220-13-thumb-125x125-14.jpg" width="125" height="125" /></a>Welcome to my blog, for parents who want to bring more Waldorf principles into&nbsp;your homes, either to enrich family life or for home schooling. </p>
<p>Right now I'm excited to have finished the 3rd revised edition of <em>You Are Child's First Teacher</em>, which will be out this coming summer (2012); in the meantime the 2nd edition is still available from our <a href="http://storewaldorfinthehome.org">online store </a>as a resource for parents&nbsp;of children from birth through age six. Please comment or send questions with the Contact Tab--I'd love to hear from you!</p>]]>
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   <title>Making Felted Easter Eggs with Children</title>
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   <summary>The children at Rainbow Bridge made felted Easter eggs this week. Here are some &quot;tips&quot; on adapting the process to include young children (ours are 1-5 years):1) For the foundation, use plastic eggs that do NOT open. They&apos;re not as...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Felted%20Eggs1.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 20px; DISPLAY: block" class="mt-image-center" alt="Felted Eggs1.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/04/Felted Eggs1-thumb-200x266-64.jpg" width="200" height="266" /></a>The children at Rainbow Bridge made felted Easter eggs this week. Here are some "tips" on adapting the process to include young children (ours are 1-5 years):<br />1) For the foundation, use plastic eggs that do NOT open. They're not as common, but you can find bags of them at craft stores. <br />2) Have the children help you wrap white wool around them and insert into a piece of nylon stocking, tied at both ends (tie one end with a SLIP KNOT so it will be easy to pull out!).<br />3) Let them "felt" their egg in hotish (warm) soapy water (dish soap works well).<br />4) When children are leave the project, finish the felting process doing them all together in REALLY HOT water, rinsing in cold water, repeating hot w soap and then cold.<br />5) Squeeze out as much water as possible and put them all in the dryer for an hour on high--this will really help with the felting process!<br />6) That night, open the stockings and loosen the felted eggs. <br />7) Let each child now point to colors of wool to wrap around the egg, and insert it into the stocking, retying with the slip knot. If you want to add the child's name, use MASKING TAPE around a safety pin and a sharpie marker.<br />8) Repeat the felting and drying process as described above.<br />9) Remove from the stocking--don't they look lovely!! </p>
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   <title>Learning through Imitation</title>
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   <summary>[This articles was written by Rahima Baldwin Dancy and covers a Waldorf understanding of child development from birth through three years. It originally appeared in Mothering, Spring 1987 and has been updated for this posting. It may be reprinted if...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Finger%20play.jpg"><img alt="Finger play.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/03/Finger play-thumb-200x285-62.jpg" width="200" height="285" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></a>[This articles was written by Rahima Baldwin Dancy and covers a Waldorf understanding of child development from birth through three years.  It originally appeared in <i>Mothering,</i> Spring 1987 and has been updated for this posting. It may be reprinted if full credit is given to the author and this web address is listed on the article.]

The imitative nature of the baby and young child is so obvious and so all-pervasive that we tend to be blind to it, unaware of its implications for parenting. Your child learns everything through imitation-walking, talking, toilet training, tying shoes, endless tasks. Imitation also manifests in expressions and gestures, as when we see and hear ourselves in our children's play.

Rudolf Steiner, who founded Waldorf education, left a rich legacy for understanding the nature and development of the young child that can help parents nourish their whole child-body, mind, emotions, and spirit. It was through Steiner that I first became aware of learning through example and imitation, principles that I had observed in my own children without bringing them to consciousness.]]>
      <![CDATA[Steiner states: "The little child, up to the age of seven, up to the change of teeth, is essentially imitative. He learns by doing what he sees being done around him. Fundamentally, all activities of the child's early years are imitations."1 How does this affect the young child--what does he or she imitate? <i>Everything.</i> Every action, every sight, sound, or other sense impression, every emotion from those around the child is taken in and absorbed right into the child's inner being. Even when not obviously imitated or reproduced in the child's actions, these impressions become indelibly etched in the child's nervous system and can affect the development of the whole organism. Young children do not have the buffers and filters that adults have to block out impressions. Indeed, all that babies can do to stop the flow of impressions is go to sleep.

The awareness that the French obstetrician Fredrick Leboyer brought to our understanding of the newborn's sensory experiences was explained by Steiner 50 years earlier. He said, "In the first part of life, before the change of teeth, the child is, so to say, altogether a sense organ. This we have to take very literally. What is the characteristic action of a sense organ? It is receptive to impressions from the environment. If something striking occurs near him-for example, a burst of anger-then the reflection thereof goes right through the child. It will affect even his blood circulation and digestive system. "2

A baby and young child will benefit from a calm and loving environment, especially one in which attention is placed on rhythm and repetition, and not on overwhelming the baby with sense impressions. Americans are enthusiastically taught to stimulate their babies for early development. This seems to grow out of a misinterpretation of studies which showed that babies in orphanages failed to thrive for lack of a primary caregiver and lack of stimulation. What is needed is the attention of loving parents who hold, cuddle, and are responsive to the child-not flash cards, activity boards, or plastic mobiles.

Babies need the loving attention of their parents <i>and</i> they need to be shielded from over-stimulation. While baby carriers increase contact between mother and baby, they also become a means of transporting babies to places where the quality of the sights and sounds are so invasive that the children would frequently be better off at home. I took my first child to a large discount department store when he was 10 days old, something I would not do again! Most parents are initially aware of the openness of the senses of the newborn, but they lose this awareness as the uniqueness of the birth slips into the "everydayness" of life.

<b>Protecting the Senses</b>
The senses of the newborn remain wide open long after birth. Because of this, some parents like to put colored silk over the baby's basket to soften the light during the first few months. Similarly, parents can attend to the quality of the sounds their baby hears. No one is advocating tiptoeing around a baby; the baby needs to become accustomed to the sounds of your household. But it is worthwhile to ask about the quality of the sounds, "Are they connected to life?" Mechanical sounds from radio, television, tapes, or stereo not only have a different vibrational quality, but they also lack a living force behind them. Steiner explained how such mechanical sounds could have a detrimental effect on the developing discriminatory function of the hearing apparatus as well as on other organs. Taped lullabies and television programs, which take the place of singing to our babies or interacting with our children, also produce sound having a mechanical quality that is best avoided until after the age of seven.

In a similar way, images on television, movies, or computer screens are two-dimensional and composed of dots and emissions that can affect the developing organs and vitality of the child, regardless of the educational content of the programs. For this reason, and because television keeps young children passive and immobile when their nature is to be in movement, parents and teachers working out of the indications of Rudolf Steiner recommend that children under seven not watch television or play video games. It is helpful to realize that the effect of television on an older child is very different from its effect on a young child. The task of the first seven years, according to Steiner, is the determination of the health and vitality of the body's organs, which is directly influenced by all that the child takes in. Anthroposophical medicine, which Steiner developed and which is well recognized in Europe, details the relationship between various illnesses in later life and the interaction of sensory impressions on the hereditary predisposition received from the parents.

With regard to the sense of touch, most parents realize the value of skin-to-skin contact with their newborn. And an increasing number of parents are using natural fibers, because they "breathe" and can help to prevent newborn rashes. Fibers from living sources such as wool, silk, and cotton have subtle qualities, which Steiner described as enhancing (rather than depleting) the body's energy
--important considerations for children and adults of all ages. Hospitals have substantiated this by reporting that premature babies gain weight faster when placed on wool sheets.

Clothing also relates to the sense of warmth, which is especially important in the young child since it helps to determine how connected the consciousness of the child is with his or her body. Remember how sitting in an overheated room could put you to sleep, while a crisp autumn day could make you feel invigorated and ready for action? Young children need evenness of temperature, and slightly on the warm side because they are dreamier and not yet as fully "on the earth" as adults. They are usually unable to accurately report when they are cold because they do not yet have much awareness in their limbs. Keeping young children adequately clothed is an adult's task, even if the children assure you that they are warm enough.

Many nurseries are now putting stockinette caps on babies to prevent heat loss. Actually, continuing to cover the head in the first year is valuable because it will protect the baby's fontanels. These soft spots, with brain tissue just underneath the skin, can take up to a year and a half to close. A hat protects the central nervous system and the infant's sensitive energy center in the top of the head (the crown chakra), which remains wide open until the fontanels close.

Keeping the head covered is also an important way of protecting the baby and young child from direct sunlight,  which has an extremely powerful effect. This fact is well known in other countries, where often only North American visitors let their babies run around in just a diaper. Waldorf preschool teachers attest to the beneficial effect of hats, for they have found that when the children wear sun hats in May and June, they tend to be less wild and "out of themselves" when they come in from outside play.

<b>Imitation and Discipline</b>
A baby's consciousness is dreamy and diffused, connected with the body but also surrounding it. Have you ever walked into a newborn's room and wondered how such a small baby could somehow fill the entire room? Because of this quality of consciousness, it is impossible to spoil a baby; babies are not yet sufficiently aware of themselves as separate beings to be able to learn manipulative behavior. Rather, meeting a baby's needs teaches him or her that the world is a trustworthy place.

Discipline in the early years can only be understood in terms of guidance. To discipline a young child is to provide an example of how things are done. If we remember that children learn by imitation, then we can correct them through our own example, and with positive statements rather than commands. For example, you might say, "We eat with a spoon" while you demonstrate this for the child, rather than saying "Stop eating with your fingers" or losing your temper.

Just as taking control of the body is a gradual process which proceeds from the head downward, so the awakening of consciousness of the "I" is also a gradual process. We could say that the child "grows down and wakes up." A contraction of consciousness occurs from the diffused, undifferentiated consciousness of the baby to the more focused, concentrated, and self-centered awareness of the two year old. This first dawning of self-awareness during the third year is repeated again at ages 9 and 13 with even greater power.

The "Terrible Twos" seem more terrible because of our perception that the child begins to be "willful," to misbehave "on purpose." This is true in the sense that suddenly we are aware of a new "doer" being present, of someone who can consciously oppose our will with his or her own. But the young child still has no memory or moral sense of right and wrong (which, Steiner says, begins to develop at age five). Knowing about this inpouring of the child's sense of self can help parents to stay calm and accept it as a necessary stage of development.

The most effective way to correct behavior in the young child is to provide an example in movement rather than to reason it out. In these times when many women are questioning patriarchy and authoritarianism, some mothers feel ambivalent about getting their child to obey and may engage in endless disputes as a result. You correct your child by virtue of the "natural authority" you have as his or her parent, teacher, and guide into the adult world that your child will one day join. Instinctively, the child accepts your authority along with your love and care. It is confusing to the child to be treated as your "equal" in this respect, and to be provided with countless reasons, threats, promises, or options. In fact, reasoning with your child is not very appropriate before the age of nine. Instead, out of your inner conviction that creating good habit patterns in early childhood is beneficial, you might say with absolute conviction, "We stay at the table until we're finished," as you remain seated while your child eats. Or, "It's time to put the toys away," while you hand your child a truck and put a horse away yourself. Children find it almost impossible to resist movement--imitation is part of their nature. However, if you start reasoning with your child to get him or her to do what you want, your child will imitate <i>that</i> and become a five year old who can talk <i>you</i> into doing things with great success.

Rhythm, example, and consistency go a long way toward preventing discipline problems. If naptime occurs every day at the same time, it becomes a part of life, not something that invites resistance. Or, if bedtime occurs every night with the same kind of ritual (pajamas, brushing teeth, lighting a candle, story, song, and prayers, for example), then going to bed will not raise questions or problems.

Avoiding problems and correcting your child without any sense that he or she should have "remembered to do it right" can help you to keep your perspective. Scolding or shouting is not effective; it simply forms part of the impression that the child takes so deeply into himself or herself. Remember, no one is perfect, and our own inner efforts and work on ourselves are the best things we can do for our young children. Striving to be models <i>worthy</i> of imitation (with renewed resolve rather than guilt) is the hardest and the most valuable work of parents, and it has the most benefit for our children. To help frazzled parents replenish their energy, Steiner suggests: sleep, meditation, and artistic activity.

<b>Walking: The Task of the First Year</b>
The earliest learning tasks of the child involve gaining control of the physical body--crawling, walking, talking, using the toilet. Children have a desire to be "big" and an innate capacity to walk upright and use language, but they first must encounter models to imitate in order for these skills to develop. For example, in rare cases where children have been raised by animals in the jungle, they never achieved an upright posture; similarly, children must be exposed to speech in order for language to develop.

The age at which a child walks, talks, or reaches other developmental milestones unfolds naturally, according to that child's inner timetable. Comparisons with siblings or neighbors' children will usually only create anxiety. Nature knows best what your child needs, and developmental stages should not be hurried or skipped. It is like fussing over a seed and digging it up to see if it is growing, when all it needs is sun, water, soil, and to be left undisturbed to grow naturally. Parents, having provided a healthy environment in which their child can grow, must then remain comfortable with the wide range of normal. (Be sure to seek answers to your questions, and either relax with reassurance or else enlist professional help in the rare cases where it is necessary.) The current "Superbaby Syndrome" can sometimes accelerate early achievement, but Steiner would say that it does so at the price of later physical health and well-being.

Gaining control of the body and learning to walk are the basic tasks of the first year. We can notice how control spreads from the head downward: starting first with the eyes, then the neck, then the trunk in learning to roll over, and finally the legs in learning to creep, crawl, and walk.

Developmental therapists now tell us that children who bypass the crawling stage often have coordination and learning disabilities in later life. Movement helps to stimulate and pattern the brain, and no phase should be skipped or hurried. For this reason, there is a twofold value to the baby in being horizontal until he or she can sit and stand independently. The first is that the time of crawling is not foreshortened, as it is with the use of baby walkers. The second is that the weight of the head and brain are not placed on the central nervous system before the baby can support them. Thus, baby walkers and other devices that set the child prematurely upright do the baby a disservice. Our plastic baby carriers also contain this design flaw, whereas in many other cultures where the young baby is carried in a sling or shawl, he or she remains horizontal much longer.

Baby gymnastics are fine for the adult companionship they provide for mothers, but they are not needed for a baby's physical development. Children need to be allowed to unfold, with parents present to share in their unflagging attempts at mastery and their pride of accomplishment.

<b>Talking: The Task of the Second Year</b>
It is most common for walking to develop before talking, because speech sounds are related to body movements. For example, Steiner states that the forming of words has a certain parallel with the way in which the child can bend the fingers or keep them straight. Once a toddler is able to walk, speech usually develops rapidly.

In addition to being able to move, the child must also be exposed to speech in order for language to develop. Naturally, talking to your baby in clear, adult sentences provides a better model to imitate than does speaking in "baby talk."

Speech is, at first, an expression of the child's feelings, not thinking. First words express pure desire or wish. "Mama!" "Cookie!" or "Hurry!" convey whole sentences. The next phase involves naming things, which is a uniquely human act and shows the developing ability to form concepts about the world outside of oneself.

<b>Thinking: The Task of the Third Year</b>
Through imitation, simple speech and naming develop into full sentences and talking, so that the two year old usually has a fair command of language. Language provides the mold out of which thinking develops as the two year old becomes more aware of himself or herself as being separate from the world.

The young child is the center of his or her universe, unaware of distinctions between inner and outer, self and other. Before the third year, children usually refer to themselves by what they hear, such as "Mary do it" or "Joey's car." Their first spoken "I" corresponds to what popular psychology has called "The Terrible Twos." This stage can better be understood (and weathered) as a time encompassing a first experience of self or individuality.

For thinking to unfold, the child must first have developed speech and also memory, which holds together sequences of experiences that the "I" gradually forms into concepts and ideas. By the age of three, the child has developed localized or "place memory," and is starting to develop rhythmic or "time memory" and concept memory. But the child is still unable to form pictures or to call up memories at will without sensory reminders. This ability does not develop until about the age of six.

<b>The Three Year Old</b>
The development of thinking, memory, and the sense of self all involve separating oneself from the world. The next phase involves the three-year-old child's reuniting with the world through creative play, as fantasy makes its first appearance. In play, we see the young child imitate all aspects of the surrounding world in an ever-changing way.

<b>Notes</b>
1 Elizabeth Grunelius, <i>Early Childhood Education and the Waldorf School Plan </i>(New York: Waldorf School Monographs, 1974), p. 41.
2 <i>Ibid., </i>p. 42.
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   <title>Waiting to Teach Reading and Writing</title>
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      <![CDATA[<i>A mother asked about why Waldorf waits until first grade to teach the letters.</i>  
Rahima replies:
In the Waldorf approach, reading and writing are introduced in first grade, starting with the letters; then children learn to read at the end of first grade, from what they have written.  The letters are introduced imaginatively, through a story and a drawing in which the letter can be found in one of the figures that starts with that sound (for example, the letter "k" might be illustrated by a King who is standing sideways, with scepter raised, blessing his subjects.). [See the DVD of Kelly Morrow teaching <a href="http://www.storewaldorfinthehome.org/product_p/vw23.htm">"Teaching Reading and Writing the Waldorf Way</a>."]]]>
      <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/iStock_000001409149XSmall.jpg"><img alt="iStock_000001409149XSmall.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/02/iStock_000001409149XSmall-thumb-200x150-60.jpg" width="200" height="150" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right; margin: 0 0 20px 20px;" /></a>While this imaginative approach starts out a bit more slowly in first grade, it ensures that the children really understand writing and then reading, and it helps keep the love of reading alive for them throughout elementary school. (Children go from proudly reading what they have written to reading real books, not things that have been digested and "dumbed down" for beginning readers).

While it is important to nourish children's sense of anticipation for when they will learn to read, Steiner cautioned against sitting the young child down and providing lessons (and no worksheets or testing!).  This is because the energy that is used for memory and intellectual work is the same energy that is needed in the early years for the healthy development of the body.

Our tendency to teach "more, sooner" is not necessarily what children need! I always wondered how children in pioneer days could start reading at age 10, and be reading the King James Version of the Bible! It turns out they hadn't missed anything by not having years of "Dick and Jane" or "Hop on Pop."  The ability to read depends on several dimensions of maturity.  Waiting until first grade is a real blessing for your children because it also provides them another couple of magical years of early childhood.  Neuroscientists like Jane Healy have documents that the change in brain development around the age of seven is real; teaching reading before that isn't doing your child any service.]]>
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   <title>Parenting the Nine Year Old</title>
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   <summary>I wrote this article to describes the developmental changes of the nine-year-old child and how parents and Waldorf education meet this psychological stage. It first appeared in Motheringmagazine. For further information we also offer a CD of a workshop by...</summary>
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For further information we also offer a CD of a workshop by Daena Ross on "The Nine-Year Change: Leaving the Garden." Click <a href="http://www.storewaldorfinthehome.org/SearchResults.asp?Search=Nine+year">here</a> to see more information.</em>

<strong>Parenting the Nine Year Old</strong><big></big>
<strong>by Rahima Baldwin Dancy</strong>

Parents of nine year olds often wonder, "What is happening to my child?" Children at this age can become very critical and argumentative, or very moody and withdrawn. Nightmares, irrational fears, headaches and stomachaches often arise. Some children feel as if no one at school likes them, or others become suddenly self-conscious about being rich, poor, or otherwise "different." Parents may be accused of being unfair or of not understanding, as the child rushes off and slams his or her door. 

Searching for an explanation for the changes in behavior, parents sometimes blame a new teacher, a recent move, changes in the family such as separation or the birth of a sibling, or simply "growing pains". An understanding of what is actually taking place can help us avoid needless worry and provide the support and guidance that children need during this time.]]>
      <![CDATA[<b>What is Happening?</b> 
The special needs of the nine year old are the result of an important change in consciousness that marks the end of early childhood and the transition to a new developmental phase. Rudolf Steiner, the founder of Waldorf education, states, "In the ninth year the child really experiences a complete transformation of its being, which indicates an important transformation of its soul-life and its bodily-physical experiences."

Earlier, before the age of five or so, the child has a dreamlike state of consciousness in which the outer world and inner experience end to flow together. Outer events are not "observed," but are deeply taken in through unconscious imitation. Whereas babies learn nearly everything through imitation, kindergarten-age children continue to imitate many aspects of their world, such as the movements of the teacher or parent. 

While the power of imitation is so strong, the child feels united with the world and experiences no sense of aloneness. But with the loss of this power around the age of nine, the child feels separated from the world. Something that was hidden and slumbering begins to awaken. Nine year olds suddenly have a strong experience of themselves as separate beings, with a new feeling of distance from the world and other people. This sense of self, first experienced around age two-and-a-half, recurs now in a much deeper way, as the inner emotional life of the child begins to develop.

Although children react differently to leaving the sweet, dreamlike world of early childhood, one response is nearly universal: children become more conscious of their surroundings. You will probably find that what was once passed by unnoticed is suddenly focused on and questioned. This awakening to the world may be met with quiet astonishment or sharp criticism, depending on the child's temperament. 

A critical child may notice whether the statements people make are grounded in the real world or are a veneer. He or she may begin to question parents and teachers, wondering, "How do they know everything?" and, indeed, "Do they really know everything?" Something in the child is seeking reassurance that the authority of the adult will stand the test of quality, and that it carries an inner certainty. 

In contrast, another child may become more withdrawn and start to look under the bed at night, or may have frequent stomachaches in response to this new sense of being alone. Parents whose children suddenly want to be alone often feel as if they are "losing" their children, as if the children no longer want to share their developing inner worlds. This is a time when intimations of mortality and death can enter a child's consciousness.  Religious questions and concerns about good and evil may also emerge with the child's increased self-awareness and sense of choice and responsibility. 

Usually, within six months after the ninth birthday (and sometimes earlier), the children are profoundly aware of this new sense of separateness between the self and the outer world. As the "I" penetrates into awareness, children begin to experience themselves as self-contained beings. The often feel as though they are in a threshold situation, poised, as it were, on the cusp of their own destiny. A 70-year-old woman wrote of this time in her life: "In this year I had a significant I-experience. I had just come from school in the city and had to change trams. In this moment of waiting, the complete certainty came to me that now all of life lay before me and that I was the one that must travel it. 

Essentially, the nine year old is experiencing his or her own identity-to become a separate individuality, able to confront the outer world. Ideally, the child comes through this difficult time with a sense of connection with his or her higher self, a kind of "knowing" that will remain even after the heightened awareness is integrated. 

My son spent many difficult months in the throes of "the nine-year change." One night, as he popped out of bed for the third time, I had to muster great self-control to say, "What now?" "I'm glad I'm me!" he announced, radiating like the sun. He went on to explain, "It's just like the song "The Age of Not Believing." The words of the Disney song ran through my mind: "You must face the age of not believing, doubting everything you ever knew. Until at last you start believing, there's something wonderful in you." We all shared in his joy and thanked God that family life could once again return to normal.

<b>Parenting Tips </b>
What can parents do to help their child through this important turning point at age nine? 
-  Understanding what is happening will help both your child and yourself as a parent. When both parents, or parents together with the teacher, consider a child and his real needs, it can help give the child balance. Be patient-- this, too, shall pass. Ten is a wonderfully harmonious time between the crisis at age nine and adolescence, when the next intensifying of self-consciousness occurs. 
-  Be willing to let your child have her own inner emotional life. You can't "fix it." Honor her need for privacy or her sudden impatience with a younger sister. Be willing to let go and tolerate distance. Your relationship is changing and will improve again once alterations have been completed. Be nearby with understanding and reassurance that she is still loved. 
-  Share your thoughts with your child about things that go beyond the every-day affairs of life. But don't limit your child by providing "answers" or definitions that can't grow within the child when asked about things like God or death. 
-  Have faith in self-healing, in your child's ability to come through this phase. Support individual artistic activity that attracts your child (writing poetry, keeping a diary, drawing or painting, music). 					
-  Support your child's interest in the world by providing opportunities to build things, visit a farm, plant a garden, do work in the real world. Encourage a connection with the plant and animal kingdoms and with simple human creative activities now before the child explores the world of technology, which is more appropriate for adolescence. 
-  Nourish your child with stories that illustrate the interconnectedness of life and the powers of fate and destiny. The story of Joseph and his coat of many colors has this element of the dream heralding his destiny and the patience he needed to see it manifest. In the curriculum of the Waldorf schools, the Old Testament stories are .told in third grade because they mirror 2- the inner state of the nine-year-old child. The creation story, for example, describes the child's own experience of leaving the paradisiacal realm of early childhood, acquiring new self-awareness, and with it the added dimensions of choice and increasing responsibility for one's actions. In fourth grade the heroic tales of the Norse myths represent the exploits of the new ego in larger- than-life fashion. The Waldorf curriculum also introduces the child to the world through projects in house-building, farming, and the study of the plant and animal kingdoms, not as abstract sciences, but in relation to the human being. 
-  Recognize that the child needs to establish a new respect for adult authority that goes beyond the blind acceptance of the younger child. Parents can encourage this by honoring a child's new relationship with a teacher or other adults in his life. Steiner states, "What matters is that at this moment in life, the child can find someone--whether this be one person or possibly several persons is of less importance--whose picture it can carry through life."(3) Parents can also help themselves be this kind of authority by presenting a united front to the child and by both sitting down with the child when questions of discipline arise (single parents may want to bring in a teacher or other adult during this time). 

The magnitude of the changes that a child of this age is going through can be better understood if you contemplate the differences between the child of seven and the child of twelve. The seven year old is light-hearted and always in movement. The limbs are active for learning (through touching, doing, walking the times tables, and so forth). In contrast, the head is relatively large and still dreamy. The seven year old is just beginning to get adult teeth. His or her emotions are easily influenced by impressions from the world, with tears changing to smiles relatively easily. 

The twelve year old, on the other hand, has a head that is very awake for thinking and longer limbs which seem heavy, tired, and often awkward to control. There is a rich and sometimes over-powering inner emotional life; the older child brings a great deal more to each experience. Physically, the sexual organs are beginning to mature as the child enters puberty. 

The nine-year-old is in the middle between the world of early childhood and the world of adolescence. The physical and emotional changes which you may observe in your nine-year-old child are the outer manifestations of the tremendous change in consciousness which is going on within the child's expanding inner world. By understanding the nature of these changes, we can better provide support in parenting the nine year old.

Awakening to the world and a new sense of self brings with it a new need: to understand the real world of everyday life, while at the same time long for intimations of something beyond ordinary life. As parents and teachers, our task is to become loving authorities for the growing child, sharing both a true picture of the world and a sense of our own inner striving.

<b>Notes</b>
1. Quoted in Hermann Koepke, <i>Das neunte Lebensjahr </i>(Dornach, Switzerland: Philosophisch-Anthroposophischer Verlag, 1983), p. 41.
2. <i>Ibid., </i>pp. 32-33.
3. Rudolf Steiner, <i>Soul Economy and Waldorf Education </i>(Spring Valley, NY: Anthroposophic Press, 1986), p. 167.

<b>For More Information</b> 
Branston, Brian. <i>Gods & Heroes from Viking Mythology</i>. New York: Schocken,1982. 
Colum, Padraic. <i>The Children of Odin: The Book of Northern Myths.</i> New York: Macmillan, 1984.
Crossley-Holland, Kevin. <i>The Norse Myths</i>. New York: Pantheon, 1981.
de Paola, Tomie. <i>Parables of Jesus</i>. New York: Holiday House, 1987.
Horn, Geoffrey, and Arthur Cavanaugh. <i>Bible Stories for Children</i>. New York: Macmillan, 1980.
Stoddard, Sandol. <i>The Doubleday Illustrated Children's Bible</i>. New York: Doubleday & Company, 1983.
Wilkinson, Roy. <i>Old Testament Stories and Commentary on the Old Testament Stories. </i>Available from Rudolf Steiner College Bookstore.

[This article is copyright 2012 by Rahima Baldwin Dancy and may be reproduced in full as a handout if reference is given to www.waldorfinthehome.org]]]>
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   <title>Mom&apos;s Love Affects Brain Development</title>
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   <published>2012-02-03T02:14:25Z</published>
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   <summary>When Rudolf Steiner described something in 1909, it can sound as if it&apos;s coming from left field: for example, that for the young child, love, &quot;pleasure and delight are the forces which most rightly quicken and call forth the physical...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/mother%20w%20daughter.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px 20px; FLOAT: right" class="mt-image-right" alt="mother w daughter.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/02/mother w daughter-thumb-200x132-54.jpg" width="200" height="132" /></a>When Rudolf Steiner described something in 1909, it can sound as if it's coming from left field: for example, that for the young child, love, "pleasure and delight are the forces which most rightly quicken and call forth the physical forms of the organs." </p>
<p>What does that mean? And then, as with so much leading edge brain imaging today, we hear something that sounds remarkably similar: that the young child's brain is actually measurably different depending upon how much loving nurturing he or she receives.</p>]]>
      <![CDATA[<p>In this latest research, researchers at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis found that when young children get plenty of nurturing from their mothers, they end up with a bigger hippocampus in the brain by the time they reach school age.  The hippocampus is an importnat structure related to learning, memory and stress response. </p>

<p>It's an interesting study, whick you can read more about at <a href="http://medicalxpress.com/news/2012-01-mom-good-child-brain.html">medicalxpress.com</a>; the research was recently published in the <em>Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences</em> Early Edition.<br />
Here's more from Steiner:<br />
"The joy of the child in and with his environment must be reckoned among the forces that build and mould the physical organs. He needs people around him with happy looks and manners and, above all, with an honest unaffected love. A love which fills the physical environment of the child with warmth may literally be said to "hatch out" the forms of the physical organs. The child who lives in such an atmosphere of love and warmth and who has around him really good examples for his imitation is living in his right element. One should therefore strictly guard against anything being done in the child's presence that he must not imitate."</p>]]>
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   <title>Homebirths Up by 30%!</title>
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   <published>2012-01-26T21:19:25Z</published>
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   <summary>The number of homebirths reached its highest level since researchers began collecting data 20 years ago. After declining from 1990 to 2004, the percentage of US births that occurred at home rose 29% from 2004 to 2009. The research was...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/newborn%20w%20dadmom.jpg"><img alt="newborn w dadmom.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/newborn w dadmom-thumb-200x132-52.jpg" width="200" height="132" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></a>The number of homebirths reached its highest level since researchers began collecting data 20 years ago. After declining from 1990 to 2004, the percentage of US births that occurred at home rose 29% from 2004 to 2009.

The research was released by the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) and Prevention's National Center for Health Statistics. The numbers are still small--in 2009, 29,650 births, or .72 percent of all births, occurred at home. However, the increase is a rapid change in direction, after declining for 15 years. Home births tend to be more common among non-Hispanic white women who are 35 and older and among women with several previous children.]]>
      I would imagine one contributing factor was the debut of the film &quot;The Business of Being Born&quot; in 2008 (by Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein). This film by a noted television celebrity addressed today&apos;s young professionals who are having babies and presented options in a contemporary way. It engendered enough interest at the time to get the attention of the AMA and motivate them to launch another attack on homebirth.  in the meantime, women love it, and Lake and Epsteiner have produced another film &quot;More Business of Being Born&quot; about birth options (released November, 2011). The films can be purchased for download or you can learn more on their website, www.businessofbeingborn.com. 
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   <title>Sharing Longer Stories with Little Ones</title>
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   <published>2012-01-19T02:52:13Z</published>
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   <summary>I&apos;ve written a long segment in First Teacher on how to select stories to tell with younger children--they especially like simple stories with repetition, like &quot;The Gingerbread Boy&quot; or &quot;The Three Little Pigs.&quot; But what about sharing longer stories, especially...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Puppetry%20Snow%20Maiden%20closeup.jpg"><img alt="Puppetry Snow Maiden closeup.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Puppetry Snow Maiden closeup-thumb-200x150-38.jpg" width="200" height="150" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></a>I've written a long segment in <em>First Teacher </em>on how to select stories to tell with younger children--they especially like simple stories with repetition, like "The Gingerbread Boy" or "The Three Little Pigs."  But what about sharing longer stories, especially if you have a mixed-age group? 
Our group of 1- to 5-year-olds is a younger mix this year, so when I first told "The Snow Maiden" after Christmas break, I was losing them. Even using the adaptation by Bronja Zahligen in the WECAN book Plays for Puppets, this is still a fairly complex Russian tale.]]>
      <![CDATA[When I found the first day that I wasn't holding their attention, I stopped right away and said, "And tomorrow I'll tell you what happened when...."  The next day I condensed what I had told them up to then and continued in a different style, basically changing the "Waldorf ideal" of "relating what you are seeing in a very melodic voice" to being much more conversational.  By being more conversational in tone--talking directly to them and being less dreamy and descriptive--I found they stayed with me.  Now, having told the story every day for two weeks, I 'm doing the puppet play and find I can be much more lyrical when they have the images in front of them and are already familiar with the songs and story.
With the mixed ages, we sit in a circle with 12 children and 3 adults, and the littlest ones (under two years of age) sit on our laps--they're clearly not tracking, but they stay with us. I insist that the other children sit up because once one lies down everything is lost. But, in general stories are very successful: the older ones still like the simpler stories, and the younger ones are (usually!) carried by the group when I'm telling an story for older children.
Another example: I wanted to tell the Rapunzel story for the older children, so I decided to do it at the lunch table.  This is a great time for stories because the younger ones are occupied with their food. But, even with the help of being at the table, I simplified the story to start with "Once upon a time there was a girl named Rapunzel" and then went back to her mother's craving for rapunzel (a type of lettuce, rampion) and the promise the father had made to the witch, rather than being completely chronlogical in the story. The reason this was simpler was because I was "talking" to them rather than relating a dreamy tale that went on and on.
In addition to telling fairy tales and simple children's stories, I also continue a tradition that y daughter Faith started two years ago: telling a story about "Pirate Jack" during snack (it always starts the same way, and then tells Jack's adventures discovering distant lands, treasure and foods).  Or a story about the adventures of Mauwie the Cat. They still love these ongoing stories and ask for them.
What do you find telling stories for children of mixed-ages.  Be adventurous--the children will let you know what works and what doesn't! 
<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Puppetry%2C%20Snow%20Maiden.jpg"><img alt="Puppetry, Snow Maiden.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Puppetry, Snow Maiden-thumb-200x266-40.jpg" width="200" height="266" class="mt-image-center" style="text-align: center; display: block; margin: 0 auto 20px;" /></a>]]>
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   <title>Toddlers Need Naps, Study Shows!</title>
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   <published>2012-01-08T18:35:26Z</published>
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   <summary>[Note: LifeWays offers a video of putting children down for nap in a childcare setting.] It&apos;s always nice when science and academia support what we already know: toddlers need naps! A recent study at the University of Colorado showed that...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/sleep%20napping.jpg"><img alt="sleep napping.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/sleep napping-thumb-200x143-31.jpg" width="200" height="143" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right; margin: 0 0 20px 20px;" /></a><em>[Note:</em> <a href="http://www.lifewaysnorthamerica.org/store/ceus">LifeWays</a> <em>offers a video of putting children down for nap in a childcare setting.]</em>

It's always nice when science and academia support what we already know: toddlers need naps! A recent study at the University of Colorado showed that missing just one nap can cause toddlers to be more anxious and frustrated when faced with a challenge. Children in the study were 2-1/2 to 3 years old, and missing just 90 minutes of sleep brought similar results to what adults experience when they pull an all-nighter.]]>
      <![CDATA[The researchers videotaped the expressions of toddlers given two different kinds of simple puzzles--one had all the correct pieces, but the other was insolvable, with a piece that wouldn't fit.  They found that sleep-deprived toddlers were less likely to act confused--an adaptive emotion that signals an understanding that something is not right--and more likely to show no emotion or to become frustrated.

"If you have a problem, let's say you can't find your way and you're lost, the response is confusion, and that's a good thing," Monique LeBourgeois, leader of the study said in the article. "When (toddlers) don't get enough sleep -- in this case from a nap--they don't show that response. What they show instead is a flat response or a neutral response--they're just blank--or they show more anxiety." 

This study is being published in the Journal of Sleep Research; to read the full article, see the <a href="http://www.dailycamera.com/cu-news/ci_19676446?IADID=Search-www.dailycamera.com-www.dailycamera.com">Boulder Daily Camera</a> from Jan. 4 2012.  LeBourgeois is now recruiting 40 toddlers born between March 2009 and October 2011 to study how sleep restriction may affect emotions and cognitive abilities; the study will take place over four years.  
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   <title>Felting Bars of Soap with Children</title>
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   <published>2011-12-27T16:28:09Z</published>
   <updated>2012-01-02T22:38:27Z</updated>
   
   <summary><![CDATA[The children at Rainbow Bridge&nbsp;felted wool coverings for&nbsp;bars of soap--making "soap in a sweater"--as presents for their parents. It becomes soap and washcloth in one, and works best with a soap dish in which it can drain. We used Ivory...]]></summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Felting%20Soap%20almost%20finished.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 20px 20px 0px; FLOAT: left" class="mt-image-left" alt="Felting Soap almost finished.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Felting Soap almost finished-thumb-200x227-26.jpg" width="200" height="227" /></a>The children at Rainbow Bridge&nbsp;felted wool coverings for&nbsp;bars of soap--making "soap in a sweater"--as presents for their parents. It becomes soap and washcloth in one, and works best with a soap dish in which it can drain. We used Ivory soap, wool roving for the first layer, and colored wool for the outer layer. Here's a picture of them&nbsp;unwrapping the soap&nbsp;when the felting process was finished.<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Felted%20soap.jpg"></a><br /></p>
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      <![CDATA[<p>To make your own, here is what you will need: </p>
<ul>
<li>Bars of soap. We use Ivory, but scented or rounded soap works well, too.</li>
<li>Wool roving.&nbsp; Wrap&nbsp;the soap with three layers of wool roving (we used white, but colored wool would also work). Wrap in alternating directions.</li>
<li>Colored wool: then let the children add&nbsp;thin layers to form a beautiful package. </li>
<li>Sections of pantyhose, tied at one end.&nbsp;You'll need to help them put it inside and pull it tight, tying off both ends.&nbsp; </li>
<li><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/Felting%20Soap%20Q%26C.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 20px 20px 0px; FLOAT: left" class="mt-image-left" alt="Felting Soap Q&amp;C.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Felting Soap Q&amp;C-thumb-200x150-28.jpg" width="200" height="150" /></a>Tubs of water, as warm as the children will use. Use a few drops of dish soap (optional) and lather up a bar; let&nbsp;a child play with one as long as possible to felt the fibers. Depending on the age and&nbsp;energy of the child, you may need to rework this yourself so the fibers tighten around the soap and felt together 10-15 minutes?). </li></ul>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Felted soap-thumb-200x150-24.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px 20px; FLOAT: right" class="mt-image-right" alt="Thumbnail image for Felted soap.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2012/01/Felted soap-thumb-200x150-24-thumb-200x150-25.jpg" width="200" height="150" /></a>Rinse and let air dry. Drying can take a couple of days, depending on the weather.&nbsp;</li>
<li>Remove from the stocking, and voila!</li></ul>]]>
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<entry>
   <title>Limiting Screen Time</title>
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   <published>2011-12-21T03:45:27Z</published>
   <updated>2011-12-21T04:09:31Z</updated>
   
   <summary>I was recently interviewed by folks from Michele Obama&apos;s initiative for preschools, called &quot;Let&apos;s Move!&quot; As part of her program to overcome obesity in children, one of the key points of Let&apos;s Move! is limiting screen time. They were interviewing...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p>I was recently interviewed by folks from Michele Obama's initiat<a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/IMG_0354.jpg"></a>ive for preschools, called "Let's Move!" As part of her program to overcome obesity in children, one of the key points of Let's Move! is limiting screen time. They were interviewing in-home providers who have been succesful in limiting screen time or those that are screen free.</p>]]>
      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/IMG_0354.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px 20px; FLOAT: right" class="mt-image-right" alt="IMG_0354.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/IMG_0354-thumb-200x150-21.jpg" width="200" height="150" /></a>Children <em>want</em> to be in movement. Never having had "screens" as part of our LifeWays/Waldorf program for 1-5 year olds, I had to think about what makes it possible--the differences with conventional programs. Here are some of the key points that make for an enriched program:<br />~ We are set up for free play--everything invites the children's imaginative play.<br />~ This makes it easy to do focused activities with smaller groups.<br />~ We have two 45-minute periods of outside play, which includes not only large-motor activities, but things like gardening, walks, moving wood, and so forth.<br />~ LifeWays' emphasis on including the children in "The Living Arts" means that they help with food preparation, setting and clearning the table, doing the dishes, folding the laundray, and so forth. We're not trying to "buy time" in which to get things done.<br />~ There is a dynamic rhythm and daily schedule that breathes with the children.Long periods of movement (free play or outside time) are punctuated by shorter periods of sitting at the table or listening to a story. Activities such as movement game circles are half-way in between--moving, but requiring the children to focus on what we're doing.</p>
<p>When the American Academy of Pediatricians recommended no screen time for children under 2 years of age and limited time for preschoolers, they got a lot of flack from parents who "needed" the time that it bought them. I think this is because they are trying to "on" all the time, entertaining their children. A real key is involving the children in The Living Arts, which include nurturing, domestic, creative and social activities--the stuff of everyday life. I was glad to hear that this government agency was also working to help childcare providers (and parents) limit screen time!</p>]]>
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   <title>Eight Principles for Inspired Mothering</title>
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   <published>2011-12-16T04:53:53Z</published>
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   <summary>Eight principles for inspired parenting: 1. We need to accept who we are and build up the support we need. 2. We need fathers to be actively involved with children. 3. We need a true understanding of children and their...</summary>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Times New Roman">2. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">We need fathers to be actively involved with children.</i> <o:p></o:p></font></font></font></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Times New Roman"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">8. We need to value our home making.</span></i><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> </span></font></font></font></p>We are our children's first home, which then expands to include life as it unfolds in the physical house or apartment. When we have children, we are creating a home willy-nilly. The more attention, awareness and creativity we can put into the process, the more home life can become a platform that effectively supports every member of the family, including ourselves. </span></font></font></font>
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<entry>
   <title>Cynthia Aldinger</title>
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   <published>2011-12-08T03:40:00Z</published>
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   <summary>Cynthia Aldinger has contributed many articles to this blog. She is the founder and Director of LifeWays North America and worked for many years as a Waldorf early childhood and parenting educator. She writes: When I was pregnant with my...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><img style="MARGIN: 0px 20px 20px 0px; FLOAT: left" class="mt-image-left" alt="Thumbnail image for Cynthia-grandkids-cropped.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/Cynthia-grandkids-cropped-thumb-150x174-11.jpg" width="150" height="174" />Cynthia Aldinger has contributed many articles to this blog. She is the founder and Director of LifeWays North America and worked for many years as a Waldorf early childhood and parenting educator. She writes:</p>
<p>When I was pregnant with my firstborn son about three decades ago, I developed a passion for learning all I could about Waldorf education and child development. When he and his brother were 9 and 7 years old, his father and I had the privilege of moving to Sussex, England where I completed my Waldorf teacher training at Emerson College.</p>
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      <![CDATA[<p>Since then I have been involved professionally in Waldorf, first as the founding teacher of Prairie Hill Waldorf School in Wisconsin and now as Executive Director of LifeWays North America. You can learn more about LifeWays at <a href="http://www.lifewaysnorthamerica.org/">www.lifewaysnorthamerica.org</a>. I also served on the Board of the Waldorf Early Childhood Association of North America for fourteen years.</p>
<p>I loved being a kindergarten teacher--especially the nature walks, the stories and the festivals. However, when I was on my sabbatical in England, a good friend, a successful businessman, asked me one of those life-changing questions. The question: "What are you going to do about child care?" He and a number of his business acquaintances were concerned about the quality of child care in Great Britain and the States, feeling that childhood itself was at stake. They felt there was too much emphasis on formal learning and not enough on quality of life and practical life skills.</p>
<p>In 1998, with the help of many individuals, I opened the first LifeWays Child Care Center in East Troy, Wisconsin, supporting families who needed care for their children from three months to six years old. I also began laying the groundwork for the development of a LifeWays training for parents, grandparents, child care providers, parent educators and preschool teachers. Since that time LifeWays has grown in response to the tremendous need for support for childcare providers and for parents.</p>
<p>In 2000, I moved with my husband back to my birth State of Oklahoma and became an active LifeWays consultant, traveling throughout North America and abroad. We now have trainings in six locations. Recently, I was blessed by the opportunity to live with my parents and my grandmother who is 104. Having the chance to help with the care of my grandmother reminded me of the importance of having predictable routines and rhythms in daily life. They provide a sense of security to both young children and the elderly. In many ways, it truly is the simple things in life that count!</p>]]>
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   <title>Rhythm in Home Life</title>
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   <published>2011-12-02T01:54:31Z</published>
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   <summary>A regular lifestyle, like the pattern of life in the womb, offers a stable environment during the rapid growth and changes in rhythm of the body during childhood. Children provided with this regular life feel confident about their world and...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p>A regular lifestyle, like the pattern of life in the womb, offers a stable environment during the rapid growth and changes in rhythm of the body during childhood. Children provided with this regular life feel confident about their world and are not concerned by uncertainty about when the next thing will happen. Rhythm in home life can also help to calm a nervous or difficult child by turning the child's life into a series of events in which he participates, and from which he gains a new sense of security and competency. </p>]]>
      <![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/IMG_0551.jpg"><img alt="IMG_0551.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/12/IMG_0551-thumb-200x150-9.jpg" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" height="150" width="200" /></a>Regular mealtimes and regular nap- and bedtimes help to start orienting the child to a natural feeling for the passing of time. They go a long way toward preventing discipline problems, because bedtimes become something that happen as regularly as the sky turning dark--there is no one to argue with or complain to each night.</p>

<p>Elizabeth Grunelius, the teacher in the first Waldorf kindergarten, summarizes, "The rhythm then becomes a habit, is accepted as self-evident and will eliminate many difficulties, struggles and arguments about eating and going to bed. . . . Regularity should prevail in as many of the child's daily activities as possible. It is the key to establishing good habits for life." (from her book, <em>Early Childhood Education and the Waldorf School Plan</em>).</p>

<p>Rhythm is also a blessing for parents, because it enables the daily activity of life to flow more smoothly, require less energy, and become a platform that supports the family, its activities, and interactions. Many mothers don't discover the secrets of rhythm until they have two or more children, and suddenly there isn't enough time not to be organized! Regular meals prevent constant feeding and cleaning up or over-hungry and whiny children; regular bedtimes suddenly free the evening for adult conversation and life again as a couple. The benefits are many, and yet it is often difficult to create rhythm in family life--it requires an inner discipline of its own!</p>

<p>Creating rhythm in one's life doesn't mean being rigid and dogmatic. There is still plenty of room for special activities and surprises (and sometimes the piper to pay the next day when the child has missed a needed nap or had a late, exciting evening--but it's worth it!). But freedom is not without form, and one is truly free when not hampered by a disorganized life. The rhythmic structure imposed on a young child and permeated with the parents' love is a discipline in the most positive sense of the word. And as your children become older, they will transform this outer structure into an inner self-discipline that will be invaluable for homework and getting other jobs done. Putting attention into these areas can help the quality of life for both you and your children from the time they are toddlers until they leave home.</p>

<p>Helle Heckman, the founder of Nokken in Denmark, states: "Everyday chores and rhythms of the day can be the same though a child's first seven years.  As a child grows, and because it grows, it will get a more nuanced experience of its surroundings. Therefore, a one-year-old and a seven-year-old will look at everyday life very differently, even if they live in the exact same surroundings. They grow into life and notice how the world becomes larger and larger, but the world becomes larger in a recognizable way. It creates security for children to find out how life affects them if they can do it by themselves and in their own tempo. Children need to seize the world before they can understand it."  See the <a href="http://www.waldorftoday.com/2011/11/the-little-ones-by-helle-heckmann/">full article</a>.<br />
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<entry>
   <title>New Edition of You Are Your Child&apos;s First Teacher</title>
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   <published>2011-11-28T04:10:47Z</published>
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   <summary><![CDATA[We are pleased to announce that a revised and updated edition of You are Your Child's First Teacher will be available in the summer of 2012. (The second edition--with the pink cover--will still be available until then).&nbsp; In the third...]]></summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p><a onclick="window.open('http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/11/First-Teacher-NewCover-6.html','popup','width=1325,height=2000,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/11/First-Teacher-NewCover-6.html"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 20px 20px 0px; FLOAT: left" class="mt-image-left" alt="First-Teacher-NewCover.jpg" src="http://www.waldorfinthehome.org/assets_c/2011/11/First-Teacher-NewCover-thumb-200x301-6.jpg" width="200" height="301" /></a>We are pleased to announce that a revised and updated edition of <i>You are Your Child's First Teacher </i>will be available in the summer of 2012. (The second edition--with the pink cover--will still be available until then).&nbsp; <br /></p>
<p>In the third edition I've updated all the references (including web addresses) and added two chapters that have grown out of my work with parents and with LifeWays over the past five years.&nbsp; The new chapters are on "Home Life as the Basis for All Learning" and "Rhythm in Home Life."</p>
<p>I'm excited that the editors at Celestial Arts contacted me to do a new edition at a time when I had been working with 1-5 year olds and their families through Rainbow Bridge LifeWays Program in Boulder. I'm excited about reaching an expanded audience with this new version!</p>
<p>Check out the new table of contents:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 1</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">You Are Your Child's First
Teacher</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ A Unique Opportunity ~ Parents' Dilemma Today ~ Cultural Dilemmas ~ Lack
of Support for Mothering ~ <span style="mso-tab-count:1">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>A Way of
Seeing Children's Development: Children Are Not Tiny Adults! ~ The Child's
Changing Consciousness ~ Whose Consciousness Is Changing? ~ Our Task as First
Teachers ~ Trusting Ourselves ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 2</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Home Life as the Basis for All
Learning</span></b></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Having an Adult Life to Imitate ~ "Homemaking 101 for Busy Parents" ~
Life as the Curriculum for the Young Child ~ Four Levels of Home Life ~
Resources on Conscious Home Making ~<span style="mso-tab-count:1">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 3<span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Growing Down and Waking Up</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Growing into the Body ~ What Is Your Baby Like Between Six Weeks and
Eight Months of Age? ~ Learning to Walk ~ The Second Year: Mastering Language ~
The Emergence of Thinking ~ Stimulating and Protecting the Young Child's Senses
~ The Emerging Sense of Self ~ Recommended Reading</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"></span></span><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 4<span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Helping Your Baby's Development
in the First Year</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Who Is This "Intimate
Stranger?" ~ The Sensitivity of the Newborn ~ What Is It Like Being with a
Newborn? ~ What Is It Like from Months 2-12? ~ Physical Development ~ The
Development of Intelligence ~ The Development of Intelligence ~ Toys for the
First Year ~ Recommended<span style="mso-spacerun:yes">&nbsp; </span>Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER <span style="mso-tab-count:1">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>5</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Helping Your Toddler's
Development</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Encouraging Balanced Development ~ De ing with Negative Behavior ~ Encouraging
the Development of Language and Understanding ~ The Beginnings of Imaginative
Play ~ Providing a Rich Environment for Your Toddler ~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Toys and Equipment ~ Recommended Resources</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">CHAPTER 6</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Rhythm in Home Life<span style="mso-tab-count:1">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Creating Rhythm in Daily Life ~ The Rhythm of the Week ~ The Rhythm
of the Year ~ Celebrating Festivals and the Course of the Year ~ Celebrating
Birthdays ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 7</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Discipline and Other Parenting
Issues</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ The Question of Discipline ~ Why Does Parenting Take So Much Energy?
~ Can You Work toward Rhythm with an Infant? ~ What About Weaning? ~ Crying
Babies ~ What About Going Back to Work? ~ What About Immunizations? ~ Do the
Toddler's Senses Still Need Protecting? ~ What Makes Children So Different from
One Another? ~ Toilet Training ~ Separation Anxiety and "Helicopter Parenting"
~ Cabin Fever ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 8<span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Nourishing Your Child's
Imagination and Creative Play</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Three Stages of Play ~ Experiencing the World Through Play ~ The
Importance of Play ~ Ways to Encourage Your Child's Creative Play ~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Nourishing Your Child's Imagination through
Stories ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 9</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
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Artistic Ability: Coloring, Painting and Beeswax Modeling</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Understanding Children's Drawings and Development ~ The Experience of
Color ~ Watercolor Painting with Young Children ~ Metamorphosis in Later Stages
of Life ~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Modeling with Beeswax
~<span style="mso-spacerun:yes">&nbsp; </span>Making Things with Your Children ~ Freeing
Your Own Inner Artist ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 10</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
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Songs, Nursery Rhymes and<span style="mso-tab-count:1">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>Circle
Games</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Make a Joyful Noise ~ Music and Cognitive Development ~ Singing with
Your Child ~ Movement Games and Fingerplays ~ Pentatonic Music and the "Mood of
the Fifth" ~ What About Music and Dance Lessons? ~ </span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:200%;tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt;line-height:200%">CHAPTER 11</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
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Childhood Education</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Academic vs. Play-Based Approaches ~ Why Not Introduce Academics
Early? ~ The Value of Preschool ~ Evaluating Early Childhood Programs ~ LifeWays
and Waldorf Early Childhood Programs ~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">LifeWays and Waldorf in the Home ~<span style="mso-spacerun:yes">&nbsp;
</span>The Value of Mixed-Age Programs ~</span> <span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">When Is Your Child Ready for First Grade? ~ What Happens Around Age
Seven? ~ Beginning Academic Work: The Waldorf Approach ~ What About the
Advanced or Gifted Child? ~ Recommended Resources ~</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">CHAPTER 12</span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:
normal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">More Parenting Issues</span></b></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops:67.5pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:
12.0pt">~ Preparation for Life ~ Computers ~ Balanced Development ~ Television
~ Toys ~ Video Games ~ Immunizations and Childhood Illnesses ~ The Sick Child ~
Religion and Young Children ~ Conscious Parenting ~ Recommended Resources ~ </span></p>

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